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I thought my work ethic and quality of would be more than enough to keep me out of all that, not to mention it was ridiculously obvious how much our customers liked what I did, and by my logic, the person who refuses to do wrong by anyone should be considered most trustworthy. Turns out I was wrong. Oh.
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